Life’s been different for most of us for a while…we’ve adapted and changed to go with the times (that’s our specialty, right?!). It also means we’ve changed or become more aware of how we approach life. So I did a little reflection and thought I’d share with you, then you can share yours with me!

How have you changed while safer at home?

Here’s what I’ve realized…

1. I am on my phone…way too much. I am also working way more than I thought I was. I told Jonathan that I’m not doing anything different, he is just now here to watch it!! And point out to me what is not working in my life. Humbling moment. I get to be curious about how to shift this.

2. I don’t have FOMO right now. I used to suffer from fear of missing out. Well, nobody is doing anything and I’m so at peace, content, happy and this shelter in place time could go on for a couple more months before I’d ever get to all my list of books to read, movies to watch, programs to create or women to encourage!

3. That I adore when Jonathan cooks. That I’ve cooked for the last ten years and it’s HIS turn! And I feel taken care of and pampered. Plus it’s grilling season, so all is good at the lake with Grill Master Jonathan.

4. That the days go by incredibly fast. I cannot believe how fast each day flies. We are in a beautiful routine of not setting our alarms and waking up naturally. Get into our offices at a decent hour. Him downstairs, me upstairs. We enjoy evening walks and drives and connecting with the other family members.

5. That I can let go of control. This has been the hardest, biggest lesson to learn, by far. When my 17-year old senior in high school asked to live with his dad during this crazy pandemic I got to accept that “this is not about me” that this is HIS journey. I had to surrender to being the #1 parent and instead of being the star player, move into being a supporter. And we are a month into it and it’s already been a win-win-win for everyone involved. LET GO and LET GOD — for the win!

I want to give you some space to reflect today too. How have you changed while safer at home? For good and not-so-good. All of it is feedback and good to think about. Hit reply and share your list with me! I miss seeing your faces each week and would love to connect.

xo,

Beth